With marriage love spells you find that many couples think that they have it all figured out from the sound of her confident yes durring the proposal. If i have not known better, i would totally say that being in love with each other is all you need to be ready for this big commitement. I met a lot of newlyweds whi did not take marriage preparation as seriously as they did their wedding plans. What happened to them?
They wwere slapped hard by the reality that marriage is no game. It was already too late when they realized that it is something a couple should prepare for.
Here are things couples should know before getting married;
- Respect is more important than love. Not that love is not important, but there are many cases where couples choose to stay together even though the love had died long before. Sometimes to support their children until they grow up, or to attain financial security. In contrast, once you lose the respect to your partner, you won’t be able to coexist. You can revive lost love with my powerful love back spells but disrespect is irreparable.
- Fancy the eyes: if you decided to fall in love with the looks, make sure to fall for the eyes, because they never age. The cute/hansome guy that you know today, in few years time will have a muffin-top belly & thinning hair and the stunning beauty that you adore now will have wrinkled away with sagged posture. Remember the eyes are the window of the soul. You will see your partner’s passion, joy and longing through them no matter how old they are.
- Cross minefields together: when your partner is progressing through a tough time in their career or if they’re struggling with some health issues, or even going insane. This is what i refer to as minefield or your marriage life. You have to cross it together. If you decided to wait for him/her at the other side of the minefield and let them cross it by themselves, you will definitely lose them. If they do not make it to the other side, you have lost them. If they made it by themselves without your support, still you have lost them.
- You will not be the same person 10 years from now. People change all the time. You fell head over heels for this person. Years of continuously getting crushed under corporate-life wheels, marathon after the kids, and drowning in daily housework, will make your partners personality almost unrecognizable. They might become more nervous, less sensitive, more aggressive or less forgiving. They will definitely not be the same person. And you need to come to terms with the new version of you and your partner, otherwise life will be unbearable.
- Work as a team: You found that after a few years, both of you have changed. Now more than ever, you need to work as a unit. It is so hard to have a ship with two captains. Sometimes let her be in charge/control and sometime let him lead. At the end of the day you want to arrive safely to the other side.
- Feed your intimacy: Sex is like food and drink. Everyone knows that, but some people think that everyone can survive on the same amount of food. For some people, kids meal is more than enough. But some won’t feel full before devouting a whole family meal. Same with sex. Do not expect your partner to have same appetite as you. If one partner was starved, that might lead to unfaithfulness. You need to communicate your feeling, needs and worries otherwise you will be stuck in an ox donkey relationship.
- Be friends: one day, many yeara from now, when the cyclone of emotion, intimacy, kids growing and work routines, settle down you will look back at your marriage path and reflect. You will have a lot of time to spend together. If the hours passed as eternity and you don’t have anything to say, then you have not been friends all your life. Friendship is the glue that stick the couple together. All way to the end with a marriage love spells
- Do not take things for granted: ‘Happily ever after’ is an elusive statement. There are ups and downs in any marriage. Sometimes you feel you married the perfect partner and sometimes you perceived them as partner from hell. It is always work in progress, so celebrate the good time and be ready for hardships with a powerful marriage love spells
- Don’t Compare: The following scenario may happen to you after a few years of marriage: You are having dinner with your partner with another couple that look like Romeo and Juliet of the mondern day. They look passionately at each other and touch hands as if it is their first time. She explicates her man as the perfect husband, and he talks about her as the perfect trophy wife. At your side of the table: sigh…look at each other…. why can’t my partner be like that? Be careful, what you had witnessed might be a show. Like the one you watch at the cinema. It had start and end time. Some people are good at acting in public.
- Patience… Patience… and more Patience : When you face any obstacles just bare in mind that time mends all problems. So take a deep breath in…shall i make myself more clear?…. Let it out. Patience. Contact us for marriage love spells and more